Episode 81

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26th Apr 2024

The ADHD sleep hack nobody talks about!

The Ultimate Sleep Hack for Boosting ADHD Entrepreneurial Success!

Oh my god I'm so excited about bringing this episode to you. It's a topic that touches every part of our lives as 'hustling' entrepreneurs - and I'm going to share with you the ADHD sleep hack I've discovered that ensures you get proper sleep and rest!

Hey, I'm Katie McManus, business strategist and money mindset coach, and this is my podcast "The Weeniecast!"

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Now, back to the episode!

Yep, you read that right, that all-important rest we often shove aside for 'just one more email.'

This episode is all about unravelling the indispensable role that quality sleep and rest plays in our lives.

The importance of sleep

Whether you're running from meeting to meeting or brainstorming the next big thing, getting solid zzz's is like hitting the reset button for your brain.

It's fascinating to see how a good night's sleep rejuvenates us not just physically but mentally.

Imagine recharging all those creative and decision-making juices!

I'm also tackling some real-deal strategies to boost our sleep quality.

Trust me, I know our entrepreneurial schedules are anything but typical, but who says we need a full 8 hours uninterrupted?

Stuff to try, and stuff to avoid

We talked everything from diet tweaks - yeah, looking at you, midnight latte - to bedroom environment makeovers that encourage the sandman to visit sooner.

So after you finish listening to this episode, I hope you're feeling energized to follow my tips for prioritizing and improving your sleep.

And not just for health, but as a strategic asset in your business toolkit.

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Stuff mentioned:

In the episode, I mention a few things for you to check out:

1. UC Davis (ucdavis.edu) - The university where I reads some sleep-related health benefits from.

2. Spotify and Audible - Platforms for listening to audio, such as Harry Potter books or sleep-supportive sounds.

3. Gaia and Calm apps - These are referenced in discussing meditation apps.

4. Gabby Bernstein - Author of the "Super Attractor" meditation app mentioned.

5. Jim Dale - Narrator of the Harry Potter audiobooks I recommend for soothing bedtime listening.

6. Jeff Bridges - He has an album called "Sleeping Tapes," which I played a clip from.

Timestamped Summary:

00:00 Sleep improves focus, memory, and accident prevention.

05:51 "Benefits of good sleep are endless, impactful."

07:18 Consistent sleep crucial for those with ADHD.

12:13 Brain replays embarrassing moments, advice not for you.

13:43 Audiobooks provide familiar and soothing escape.

19:25 Be mindful of the type of meditation.

20:25 Use specific meditation for sleep, not multitasking.

24:27 Businesses should support varied personal dream lifestyles.

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Transcript
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In this episode, I'm going to help you

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sleep, but not before you finish listening. Hi, I'm

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Katie McManus, business strategist and money mindset coach, and welcome to the weenie

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cast squirrel. I'm ridiculously

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excited about the topic of this episode. It is one of my

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absolute all time favorite activities and I love talking about it because

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I think it is the most magical thing that any

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human can devote time to. I'll give you a guess what it

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is. No, you're wrong. It's sleep.

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Get your mind out of the gutter.

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And I say this having formerly been the type of person who

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would always say, well, I'll sleep when I'm dead. I'll just sleep 4 hours

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tonight and I'll catch up on sleep on the weekend. That's massively

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unhealthy. And if you have ADHD like

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we all do, it is really bad for your

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ability to manage your ADHD symptoms.

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So some of the health benefits of sleep, and I'm reading this

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literally off of the ucdavis.edu website, it

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promotes growth, which, I mean, I think I'm done growing, but sure,

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if I am going to grow a couple more inches, great.

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I will let sleep do the heavy lifting there. It promotes heart health.

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Okay. Having a healthy heart is a really good thing. It supports

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weight management. And as a woman who grew up in the

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United States and learned from a very young age to hate my

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body, as most women do, can we please do

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something about that? Can we please start doing some more body positivity stuff

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for young girls and for women? Like, I like to approach that from a healthy

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standpoint. There's no one number that you need to see on the scale

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to be successful, to be hot, to be healthy.

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But being a healthy weight really does support your health and your

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ability to live longer. So sleep helps you get there.

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It helps you combat germs and keep your immune system strong,

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which after the last few years, I think is pretty important,

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it helps you reduce the risk of injury. As an adhder

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who's very clumsy, who has fallen down the stairs multiple times

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and manages to injure herself at least once or twice a year,

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I need this. I need to mitigate that risk some way.

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And if sleep is one of the ways I can do it, then yes, please.

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You know the next thing on this list, it literally says it helps you increase

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your attention span, which we all need. It also boosts

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your memory and your ability to learn. I know when I'm

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tired, when I haven't slept well. There are so many more moments in

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the day where I walk into a room and think, what the fuck did I

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come in here for? And then I have to turn around and retrace my

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steps and figure out what it was. And sometimes I remember

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and sometimes I don't, and I'm just wandering around my house,

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just not knowing what I'm doing. And I know you've been there,

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too. In addition to that list, I'm going to add some things.

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Okay, UC Davis, if you're listening, you can add this to your list as

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well. When you're well rested, you're also way more

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creative. You have ability to access parts of your

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brain that makes connections between completely disparate

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things and allows for you to come up with really innovative solutions

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to big problems and a little problems. It makes you more

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creative in your content creation. When you are well rested,

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you're also in a better mood. I'm far more likely to be in a shitty

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mood when I haven't had enough sleep, right. If I'm well rested, like that

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is half the battle of being in a good mood. You just have to make

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sure you don't spill your coffee and you have the most perfect day ahead of

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you. In addition to being more creative, you are

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also far more grounded in

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the positive beliefs you have about yourself. In coach training,

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one of the things that we learned about were saboteurs. And saboteurs are basically those

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voices of doubt that play up and tell you that you suck and that

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you fail at everything. You're not gonna finish this. Oh, you look

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fat today. And this and that and the other thing, they tear you

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down to keep you in your comfort zone. And

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those voices like, yes, they're a part of you, but they're also not true.

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Those voices, their only job is to keep you safe and to keep you in

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your comfort zone, even if your comfort zone low key sucks.

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Doing the scary, brave thing is outside that comfort zone. And

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those voices don't want you doing that, even if it has the potential for

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big payoff, like starting a business. So

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when you are tired, those voices pretty much have an

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open door policy because you're too tired to really tap into your positive

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voices. You're too tired to tap into your intuition and

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into your heart energy and into your inner leader. And I know those are

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all really super coachy words, but it really does

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make a difference when you're able to ground into that

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power and into that knowledge of everything that you're capable of.

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When you're too tired, you just can't do it effectively.

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One of my favorite discoveries about starting a business is that

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sometimes my work for the day

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includes taking a nap. And I am all about the

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naps. I used to be anti nap, if you can believe it, but then I

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discovered this magical thing called the granny napkin. And it's not a long

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nap, it's a 20 or 30 minutes er where you lay down, you set a

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timer and you just kind of doze for 20 or 30 minutes. You don't go

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into a deep sleep. And I think the reason I was anti nap is because

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I was so sleep deprived that when I laid down for a nap I would

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just literally sleep for like two full REM cycles and I would wake

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up feeling like I was in a different universe, in a different like time zone.

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And that can fuck with you. But the reason I that

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happened was because I was so sleep deprived. So the benefits to

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sleeping well, to getting enough sleep, are

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just never ending. It can make you live longer, it can make you

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happier, it can make you healthier and it's going to make you more

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creative and effective in this business you're working on. I think those are all good

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things. I will also add that when you're sleep deprived, your

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cortisol also shoots up, so you have higher anxiety when you're tired,

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which is probably why those saboteur voices come in and we don't want

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that. But we're still humans living in a very busy world

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where we're expected to spend time with our friends, have a

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meditation practice, work out every day, cook three really healthy

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meals, call our moms, you know, text our dads

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because our dads really don't like talking on the phone. Let's be real. We have

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to shower, we have to do our hair, we have to do our makeup. If

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you're a makeup wearer, we have to pick out a nice

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outfit. We have to wear that outfit. We have to manage not to spill anything

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on that outfit so that we don't have to change another time in the day.

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We have to spend time with our kids or for babies. We have to make

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sure that they get enough food and attention and exercise.

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We have to volunteer so that we can be morally superior to everyone

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else and, you know, also give back to the community

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and good things like that. And we have to do

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everything to be successful in our businesses or our work. It's hard

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to fit in a good 8 hours of sleep with all that shit on your

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plate. We're going to talk about sleep with the best intention of

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you getting more of it. I want to name that. I

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consistently get eight to 9 hours of sleep a night. As I'm

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talking about this, I only got six last night, and I'm paying for it.

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When you train your body to get eight to 9 hours of sleep, it's

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really hard for your body to get less than that because

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it gets spoiled and it doesn't want to give up what it actually needs. So

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how to do you set yourself up to actually be able to sleep enough?

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And it's so important for those of us with

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ADHD to get enough sleep because our brains work so

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hard throughout the day. Neurotypicals are lucky. They

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wake up and they just go into their automatic routine. They

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don't have to make all the decisions that we have to make, you know, for

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us. We wake up and we're like, okay, cool. I need to shower, I need

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to brush my teeth, I need to eat breakfast, and I need to work out

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what order should I do it in. And you have to decide it every single

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day. There's no automatic routine. There might be for a few months,

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but then you fall out of it and you have to find a new one.

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You don't realize it, but making even those most simple decisions

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throughout the day, it's taxing on your brain. It requires your

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brain to need more rest. And that's just the

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basic human requirement stuff. It's not even the business ownership.

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When you add the business owner stuff, the decision fatigue just goes through

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the roof. Okay, so it is really important that we get enough sleep, and I'm

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going to talk through a couple ways that you give yourself enough sleep.

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All right, I'm going to talk through a couple things. And full

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permission here to, as you're listening to this

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episode, to just say, fuck off, Katie. No, that's not

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happening. It's fine. These are just best practices. You don't have to do all of

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them. You don't have to do any of them. But if you want to get

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better sleep, these are things that are going to help you. Squirrel. Squirrel. For those

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of you who get defiance around someone telling you what to do,

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take a deep breath. This is not that episode. Squirrel. Okay, so the things

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that will get in the way of you getting good sleep. First and

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foremost, one of my favorite things in the world next to sleep is

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caffeine. You should not be having caffeine

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less than 10 hours before you plan on sleeping. I used

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to be that person who could drink a cup of coffee at 09:00 p.m.. And

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be able to fall asleep. I don't know what happened to my

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body chemistry as I've gotten older, but now I can't have a

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cup of coffee later than 1130 in the morning. It's really depressing. I

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love coffee. I think it's one of the most delicious things ever discovered. And I

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wish I could drink it all afternoon, but I can't because I won't be able

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to sleep. When you have adrenaline in your system, it actually counteracts the

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melatonin, which is another hormone that basically tells your body it's time

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to sleep. So you wanna be very careful about caffeine consumption.

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Light can mess with your circadian rhythms. The

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thing that made me realize just how brutal light can be

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to your circadian rhythm was when I was going live

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during the pandemic later in the evening. Cause when I go

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live in the evening, there's not a whole lot of natural light in my office.

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And so I was using a very powerful ring light.

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And so this ring light was just blasting my face

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and my eyes. And what I found is if I went live

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at, like, 07:00 p.m. With the ring light, normally I'd be able

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to work, you know, 07:00 p.m. To like, 08:00 p.m. And get some projects done.

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And that's fine, just working on my computer. And afterwards I'd be able

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to, like, go to bed around nine and fall asleep around ten. But if I

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have that ring light on, there's no way in hell I'm falling asleep before

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00 a.m. It's one of the reasons I haven't really been going live a lot

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lately, because I've become so conscious of it, it can mess with

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you. And it's so funny because you can be absolutely exhausted. But if

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your circadian rhythm is off and your brain thinks it's time to be awake

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because there are bright lights around, or there have been, your brain just

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will not shut down. And we all know what

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is impossible when your brain can't shut down. It's impossible to

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see. Of course, we've all seen the, like, random

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studies about, like, looking at your phone and looking at the tv

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and looking at any kind of screen. The blue light can

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actually impact you as well. I'm a realist, and I'm also

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someone who really enjoys sending senseless reels to my friends late

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at night. Like, yes, absolutely. If you have the willpower

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to not look at your phone for an hour or two before bed.

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Dude, you are doing better than I am. It's possible for some.

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I'm not in my era of being good with my

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phone,

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so that's kind of how we want to set ourselves up for

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proper sleep. Those are the things that are really going to get in the way.

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Like, what about when it comes to falling asleep, though, right? Because

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you can be exhausted. You can be so

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worn out from physical activities, from a

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really long work day. But if something's going on,

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if there's something stressful happening, or maybe your brain just

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decides to, like, go through the memory file of all of your embarrassing moments

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and make you replay them over and over and over again one night. That happens

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a lot, doesn't it? You know, my brain really loves replaying this

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moment where I slipped and ate shit in the hallway

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in high school and everyone laughed at me and, like, my brain, like,

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wants to come up with the mean comeback that I could have had. But what

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mean comeback could I have had against, like, 17

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kids laughing at me for falling on my ass? If you

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were in that hallway, then stop listening to this podcast. You're not

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allowed to get any of the advice that I give. Take it back. I'm doing

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take backs. Any advice you've gotten from me now, stop

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using it. Go and be really uncomfortable with your

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adhd and your business. Squirrel, squirrel, squirrel, squirrel.

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So anyway, when you have those moments and your brain is just trotting out all

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the embarrassing things and all the things you should be stressed out about, how do

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you turn that off? There are a few ways that I do

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this, and you're gonna laugh. The number one way that I turn off this

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voice is I play like any of the seven Harry Potter

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books on audible. Ex speliarmus. Jim Dale has one of the most

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soothing voices I've ever heard in my life. I

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could fall asleep to that man talking all day long. I think the other thing

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that helps here is I have read these books countless times. I

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can't even keep track of how many times I've read them. I've also listened to

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the audible books so many times.

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So the sounds, the storyline, the characters

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are all super familiar to me. There are only a few

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chapters in a few books that if I'm listening to at bedtime, like, have to

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listen, like, what's going to happen? It's like, I know what's going to happen. I

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probably could say word for word each line about what's going

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to happen. But here's what works about it is a. It's a

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voice. It's something for you to listen to and focus in on and kind of

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like distance yourself from your own inner voices. B,

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it's a storyline, but it's a familiar storyline, right?

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So you get sucked into the story but you're not hung up on like, what's

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going to happen next and what's going to happen next, you know, are Ron and

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Hermione going to end up together? If you haven't read the books, I will

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not ruin that for you. But they do.

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Just kidding. I had to ruin it. I'm sorry, Dumbledore. No, I'm

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not going to say that something

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happens with Dumbledore. That's all I will say.

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Although while we're on the topic, I really think the biggest villain

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in the whole series is Aunt Petunia.

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That bitch. Like, she knew that

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Snape and Lily were friends.

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She knew. I mean, just imagine

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if she had even in like a really bitchy, mean way

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been like, oh, my God, your mother was friends with this

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awful boy, Severus Snape. He was terrible, you know, but they were

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best friends. They were inseparable. And they ended up going to that terrible

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school together. Harry. And then Harry goes to

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Hogwarts and sure, he looks like his dad and that like, is

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a, gives Snape like a bad reaction, right? Cause he hated James

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Potter. But what if he just went up to

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Severus Snape, Professor Snape in the very beginning and was like,

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hi, Professor Snape, someone told me that you were really good friends with my

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mom. Imagine what could have happened with that relationship.

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Imagine like they could have gone on picnics. They could have been like, you know,

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the second godfather. Who knows? She didn't. She is the

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villain in that story. I will never forgive her for it.

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Moving on, if Harry Potter doesn't do it for you, pick a

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book that you've listened to a bunch of times that has a

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storyline and doesn't get your creativity running. I know

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some people are like, cool, I'll listen to self help. I'll listen to

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management books. I'll listen to creativity books. No, don't do it.

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Because you and I both know you're going to hear something and it's going to

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spark an idea for you and you'll be like, I have to get up and

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journal right now. I have to get up and I have to make an Instagram

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reel right now. Oh, my God. I have an idea for a blog post. I

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have to do it right now. And then it's going to be 03:00 a.m. In

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the morning and you're going to have 4 hours left to get a good night's

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sleep and you're going to be so annoyed that you tried

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to listen to this book. We both know that you'll be tired and grouchy and

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you'll probably blame me, and I don't like that. So don't try

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it. Sometimes we really just need like some kind of

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sound to drown out the voice. What I find incredibly

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helpful here is like on Spotify

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or on audible, you can find a playlist of like,

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thunderstorms with rain. You can listen

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to rainforests, you can listen to babbling

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brooks. The only thing with this, like, sometimes like the sound of running water can

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make you want to pee. So be careful with your water consumption.

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I've also discovered brown noise and it's

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just kind of like, like this static

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noise. It's amazing. It like, doesn't have

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a storyline, obviously. It's not. There's no melody to it. It

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doesn't sound like anything that happens in the natural world, but it just has this

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way of turning off your brain and allowing your brain just

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to kind of go blank. And sometimes that's all you need. You just need like

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three minutes of that to drift off to sleep. And if you want to try

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out the brown noise thing and you want some real top

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quality vetted brown noise, then go to

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weeniecast.com brownnoise and you can check

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out one of our favorite tracks. I was talking with my producer as we

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were talking through what this episode would be about, and we were talking about different,

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like, like sleep meditations. And we were

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joking about the weird, different storytelling recordings that

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you can listen to. Like Jeff Bridges actually has a

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whole album of storytelling that you can listen to as you

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fall asleep. It's called dreamingwithjeff.com

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Sleeping

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tapes. I love

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that idea and all that it

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implies, you know,

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sleeping tapes.

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Sleep, of course, implies waking up.

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Tapes imply

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recording. Yeah.

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Sharing things. I will never use it.

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It's weird. It's Jeff Bridges. But if you want to laugh, you should go check

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it out. We will put it in the show notes. So just go to

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dreamingwithjeff.com or click on it in the show notes. But here's what

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I want to say about guided meditation and using them for

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sleep. If you are trying to maintain a meditative

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practice and you're using a

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specific method of meditation, so say you're doing transcendental

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meditation or you are doing specific

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meditations on the Gaia app or on the calm app.

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You want to be very conscious of the types of meditation that you're

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doing to do meditation for and the types that you're

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using to fall asleep to. The reason

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being your brain will learn very

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quickly when a meditation comes on or when you go

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into a meditation, if you're doing something that's more free form, if you're

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using that to fall asleep, when you start meditating, your body, like,

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cool, time to sleep now. And instead of having a meditation,

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you will have a little nap when you're not expecting it. And

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naps don't have the same impact as meditation. So if you

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want to meditate, you have to really keep your meditation practice separate

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from the sleep meditations that you follow. I

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downloaded the app by Gabby Bernstein, the super attractor lady,

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and I really like her app. I think it's really fun. I love

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some of the manifestation work that she does on there, but I really, I

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really love her guided meditations, but I actually don't use

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them the way they're supposed to. I use them as sleep meditations

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because I don't want to use any of the other meditations that I use

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to fall asleep because I don't want to train myself to fall asleep. But

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I find the music is really soothing. I really like that I'm falling asleep

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to stuff that is all about manifesting and, like, getting in touch with my, my

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inner self and, and so on and so forth. So whatever this is

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for you, whatever is going to help you turn your brain off, find a

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practice that you can stick to, but you want to be

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deliberate about using that practice only for sleep and not trying to use it for

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other stuff as well.

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And I know I've touched on this already in this episode, but I

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cannot stress it more that sometimes your job in your

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business is to take a nap

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genuinely. If you're a business

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owner who's providing services or any kind of

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solution to your clients, you need to think about what your

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responsibility is to your clients, right. If they're paying

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you money for your brain to be able to think things

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through, you owe them a brain that is

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able to think things through when

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you're too tired, you can't do that.

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Sometimes instead of, you know, blasting through emails

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and, you know, going live and creating more content before your

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next client call, sometimes you have to put all that stuff aside and

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just lay down and get an hour's sleep. You owe it to your

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clients who are paying you a buttload of money to be well rested and

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at the top of your game. As I talk through this. I'm just

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imagining, you know, someday I'm gonna have, like, a

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whole retreat conference kind of thing, and smack dab in the middle

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of the day, we're gonna have nap time. And you know what? Like,

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underneath all the conference tables and everything, they're gonna be like those

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mats that we had in kindergarten, you know, that you

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unfold, and then everyone gets, like, their own little blank in their own little pillow,

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and you just, like, go to sleep on the floor of the conference and just,

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like, have a little, you know, 20 minutes granny nap. And then you, like, get

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up, and then you get back to the conference, and you get to, like, be

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in a good mood and, you know, almost like a midday sleepover. Wouldn't

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that be fun if you would come to that conference

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with that nap in the middle? Let me know. I'll put you on the list

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to get a special rate. If you are really struggling with

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sleep because you're experiencing too much stress,

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that is not the point of starting a business. That is how a lot of

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people start and run their businesses is from a place of fear

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and just constant stress. That is not healthy.

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If you're running a business and you feel like the stress of it is

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running your life, you need a better way to run that

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business. There are so many bad models

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of what it looks like to run a successful business. I can't tell you how

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many people I've spoken to who really want to start a business, but they're

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terrified because their parents owned a business and their parents

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had to work 13 hours a day, seven days a week, and they never got

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any time off. And usually one of them

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at least died early from heart

:

problems, a stroke, something that was stress related.

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And while this person I'm talking to is like, I really want to start a

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business, but, like, I can't do that. I can't do that to myself. I want

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to see my kids. I want to live past 60. I want to

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be able to do all that life gives me. But that's the only model I've

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had for what running a business looks like. You need a better

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model if that's where you're at. If you're running a business like

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that, you need a better strategy.

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You need a better action plan.

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One of the things that I constantly bang on about with my clients

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is, we're not designing a business that is going to be

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successful but also run your life. We're not

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designing businesses that require you to basically be a robot and be

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110% every single day. We're designing

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businesses that can be successful in the right way to

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support you living whatever dream life you have. You know, maybe it's

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working 20 hours a week and getting to coach the softball

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team for your kids middle school. Maybe you want to have the nomad

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life. You want to work 30 hours a week, but you want to be able

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to do it from anywhere in the world. Maybe you want

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to work 40 hours a week and you want to be able to get

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hired to speak on stages, being the keynote and getting

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paid really well for it. All those things are possible, but you need to do

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it in a way that if you get sick or if something happens, heaven

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forbid, you lose someone you love, something really inconvenient happens.

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Like you're in a car accident and you have to take a day off. For

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you to have a sustainably successful business, your business

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has to be able to withstand that. And if you don't have a model for

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how to do that, you need to learn how to do that.

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Because when you have a successful business that doesn't require

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you to kill yourself to run it, that's when you actually

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get to live life. That's when you actually can feel

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happy about this business. Sleepless nights

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of your business are the first sign that

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things need to change. So if you're listening to this and you're

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currently sleep deprived because you're stressing out about stuff, then your first

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assignment is to go and take a granny nap.

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Because they're amazing and I love them. I know you will, too, if that helps.

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And that's your new practice. That's what you're going to do every day. You're just

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going to have a granny nap. If that's what helps you reduce your stress and

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sleep better at night and do better work, great. That is your fix it.

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But if the granny nap does not help,

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then you, my friend, need to start changing some stuff in

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your business and in your sleep routines.

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The Weeniecast: make more money, create an impact
Money mindset and impact coaching for business owners
I help business owners make more money in less time, so they can create bigger impact.
It doesn't matter what it is, we all have a sense of purpose. We want to leave a legacy.
We want to matter. And the best way of doing that, is to become wealthy.
But the sad reality is a lot of us are stuck in 'weenie' mode. In other words, we make up excuses for why we can't become our brilliant, wealthy selves.
That ends with this podcast.

My name is Katie McManus.
As a CPCC (Certified Professional Co-Active Coach) I know how to help people like you to reach their financial goals, and earn the life they've always dreamed of.

Until quite recently, I described myself as a business strategist and money mindset coach who was focusing on helping business owners with ADHD to get more income from their business.
I've been helping some of them get eleven times the value of their investment back.
And then, I had an epiphany.
I was being a weenie.
Being a business strategist is not the limit of my gifts to the world.
I'm also a political activist, a serial entrepreneur who oversees multiple six figure businesses, and I'm the founder of a non-profit with dreams of helping members of the LGBTQ+ community to find more joy from their lives in a very specific way.
And all of that is being achieved by scaling my business in a way that I don't have to be in it every hour of the day, but still make enough money to work hard on making impact.
Do you also want to learn how you can make more money, in less time, so that you can create impact on your community, or with projects that are important to you?

Want coaching on money mindset, sales advice, and general business growth, but all from the safety and comfort of your own space?

If you're wanting to listen to business strategy and money mindset advice that's specifically targeted to business owners like you who want to achieve BIG things but maybe have some challenges, then "The Weeniecast" is the podcast for YOU.

I will help you understand your own potential for growing a dream business that works without you but still makes seriously life-changing amounts of money.

Learn more about the show at weeniecast.com
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